I'm small, but Greg is even smaller! Two small guys and a decent sized backhoe!

I'm always busy. And my friends are too! Instead of driving yourself crazy, take this advice. Be pleased when friends show up to help but don't count on them. I've had problems getting people I pay money to show up so I certainly don't expect my busy friends to have much extra time. When my friends were kind enough to offer help, I always had a list of things they could do! Sometimes the best help is the friend that shows up with a spare coffee or can make a run to Home Depot for you.